Ukuba uhlala kwindawo yokuqeshisa nabantwana abangenxalenye yendawo ephakamileyo ekhutshiwe , kufuneka uthuthuzele ukuba uyazi ukuba umthetho wesigqeba ukhusela wena kunye nosapho lwakho ngokuchasene. Phakathi kweeklasi ezisixhenxe ezikhuselekileyo zezindlu zithi " isimo sentsapho ," ebhekisela kubuncinane babantwana abangaphantsi kwe-18. Ngenxa yoku khusela, unokuzibuza ukuba kutheni kubaninzi abanamalungelo omhlaba abonakala bengabikho kunye nokunyanzelisa imigaqo yokuba abantwana abangabodwa .
Ubume bokuhlaliswa kobuhlanga buhluke kakhulu kunezinye iintlobo zolucalulo. Akukho mvume yokumisela abantu ngokusekelwe kobuhlanga, imvelaphi yesizwe, okanye ngesondo, umzekelo. Kodwa kulungile ukuba umninikhaya anikezele abantwana - ukuba imithetho yomnini-nkqubo ijolise ekukhuseleni impilo kunye nezokhuseleko lwabantwana, kwaye ukuba ziqikelele.
Oku akufanele kumangaliswe, ngenxa yokuba akukho mntu ufuna ukubona abantwana bebuhlungu, kunye nabanini-mhlaba abangathathi amanyathelo okukhusela abaqeshi babo ukuba bavulele ukuxhomekeka.
Ngoko, ungayibona njani ukuba umgaqo kwisakhiwo sakho sezindlu usemthethweni? Zibuze nje le mibuzo emibini:
Ingaba umthetho ujolise ekukhuseleni impilo nempilo yabantwana
Imithetho efanelekileyo imele ifumaneke kuwo wonke umntu ungadlulanga lo vavanyo. Ngokomzekelo, isigatya sokuqeshisa abantwini ukuba senze izinto eziqhelekileyo kwiindawo eziqhelekileyo zikhetha abantwana. Iingcamango zokunqanda ukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo kwiindawo eziqhelekileyo zilungile, kodwa kutheni ungavumeli ukuziphatha ngokubanzi, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kuvela kubantwana okanye kubantu abadala?
Kwakhona, qaphela imigaqo enokubonakala ibanjelwe ukukhusela abantwana kuba ixhamle kunye neminye imithetho. Umzekelo, amathuba okuba isakhiwo sakho sinezibuko, sineemigaqo yemigangatho yamanzi, amaninzi ekukhuseleni abantwana (umzekelo, ngokufuna umntu ophantsi kwelinye iliso).
Kodwa umgaqo wokuvinjelwa abantwana ukusuka echibini ngexesha leeyure ezithile mhlawumbi kuhlose ukunika abantu abadala ithuba lokonwabela ipulazi yedwa - kungekhona ekukhuseleni abantwana kwingozi.
Ngaba ulawulo olufanelekileyo
Ukuba uphendule "ewe" kumbuzo wokuqala, umgaqo mhlawumbi ungomthetho. Kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba umthetho ojolise ekukhuseleni abantwana uhamba kakhulu. Ngokomzekelo, efuna ukuba bonke abantwana abangaphantsi kwe-18 - kubandakanywa nabafundi besikolo esiphakamileyo-ukuba babe nokulawulwa kwabantu abadala xa besetyenziselwa ukukhupha abantwana.